Despite your best efforts you will probably encounter a lazy performer during your journeys through the world of cam chatting. Sometimes the men who are the most energetic in free chat turn out to be the most lethargic in a private session. It’s hard to predict what he’s going to be like when you actually get him into a private chat. If you do find that you’ve picked a bit of a dud there are a couple things that you can try so that your session isn’t a total waste.
Ask for His Input Building the Show
A true professional cam model would be equally excited no matter what you asked him to do. This means that no matter what your request he would provide top-notch service. Unfortunately, not all men are as good at faking enthusiasm. Even worse, some of the men who aren’t that good at it are so hot that you don’t even really care that they’re being unprofessional. You just want to see them work it. That’s fair. So, if you’ve got a hottie whose body you have to see in a private session and he’s not living up the hype, there could be something wrong with your requests. He could be bored and phoning in a performance. A good way to test that is to ask for his input when you build the show you’re going to see. Ask him if there’s any kinks he’s really into or acts he wants to do right now. A good cam man will tell you everything you want to hear anyway, and feeling like he has a little control can be just the thing to boost his mood enough to get a great performance out of him.
Make Unusual Requests
Going along the same vein of performer boredom, examine your requests list. Are you a pretty vanilla guy? Would someone assume that you were based on your request list? There’s nothing wrong with the traditional items but if your cam man is bored you should consider stepping it up a notch. Almost everyone has that little kink they can’t get out of their head but haven’t tried. A lazy or bored cam performer is the perfect man to try it with. Worst-case scenario, you shock him enough that he actually starts paying attention!
Tell Him Why You’re Finding Someone Else
Sometimes a cam model isn’t bored. Sometimes a cam model is simply lazy. He wants to make easy money and he’s hot so he doesn’t understand why you’re so demanding. He wants to sit back and have the money roll in. When you’ve had enough of a cam model’s lazy ways, you should tell him so. Not just so you don’t carry the resentment around with you into the next cam performer’s chat that you go into, but because he should know why he’s losing customers. Sometimes performers need a wake up call. You’re not there to be the therapist guiding him towards better service, but you can give him a performance review. It’s totally fair to tell a performer that you don’t feel connected with him and you think he’s wasting your money. Then leave, don’t bother to stay and have it out with him. Getting into a fight is just another money trap for a lazy performer.