The Ten Minute Private Chat: How to Get What You Want and Get Out

"Enjoy your private chat"

“Enjoy your private chat”

You don’t have to give up camming just because you’re tightening the budget. You just have to get better at getting what you want out of the performer. Sure, you’d love to chat and flirt with him all day but you don’t always have the time or the money to indulge those urges. Follow these steps to get a complete cam show in ten minutes or less.

Cut the Small Talk

It’s great to know his name and what he likes, but let’s be real here: you can get that from his bio. Performers love to drag out the small talk at the start of a private cam session because they get paid to essentially do nothing but set their clients at ease. That’s nice sometimes, but today you’re here for the main show and nothing else. Cut the small talk out by going directly into what you’d like to see. Have this thought out before you get online. What you’d like him to do, if you want him to finish, and where you want him to point when he does are all things that you can cover in a few sentences. Don’t come right out and say that you’re in a rush. Cam men don’t like to hear that, and he might not give you the kind of performance you want if he knows that he’s not going to be making much money off of you.

Get Going When He Does

Generally when you watch a cam site it’s a bad idea to get started as soon as the performer does. When you’re banking on time you don’t have the luxury to wait. Once the show starts you can start touching yourself. You don’t have to rush through brutally; keep pace with the performer and let the rhythm of what you’re seeing on the cam help you out. You don’t want to finish so quickly that you can’t enjoy the fact that you’re camming. There’s a balance that you need to strike.

Don’t Let It Build Forever

"You don't want blue balls, do you?"

“You don’t want blue balls, do you?”

To be honest about it, delaying orgasm is great. It can be great. But to get a big difference in the greatness you have to hold back for a long time, the kind of long time that you don’t have time for when you’re camming for a few minutes. You can hold back for a couple minutes to get that first little burst of greatness, but know that it’s going to be diminishing returns after that. You might as well just finish.

Don’t Chat When You’re Done

The same as cutting the small talk before hand except that there’s even less to say after. Thank the cam man, tip him if you’re going to, and sign out. A lot of men will try to engage you in small talk (again, easy money for him) or other things to keep you on the timer for longer. Ignore him. Don’t tell him when you’re going to come see him again–if he’s worth it, you’ll be coming back soon anyway.


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