“Let him perform for you”
Cam sites are great for a man who likes to be in charge of his show. If you don’t like to be the one calling the shots in a show (or you just don’t like it all the time) there are still options for you. You just have to be careful not to let the cam guy take advantage of you by setting a slow pace and milking it for all its worth. These are some tricks to keep you safe from scammers while still letting him show you the kind of good time you’re looking for.
Only Chitchat If He’s Also Performing
Cam performers like to add in a little chitchat between items on your list of requests or even before they get down to business. It’s okay to exchange names and set up a little rapport, but you don’t want to take minutes to do this. You’re paying for every second you spend looking at this guy, so you might as well get your money’s worth. If he’s the talker type, that’s fine. Just make sure that he’s also working as you go. This means that talk about how you like the site as a whole? That can happen while he strips for you. Chatting about how much he likes his work is the perfect conversation for how he readies himself for anal. If he’s not doing something for you (or killing time while he warms up for a request you’ve made) then it’s not the time to be talking.
Following One of His Standard Shows
If you don’t want to take control of the cam show at all, ask about his standard packages when you get online. Even if he doesn’t have a premade show lined up he will have requests that he heard a lot. You don’t have to do anything special here; just put together a brief rundown of the requests you’d like (or that he offers as a ready-made cam show. Whether or not he has one varies from site to site and performer to performer. Some sites have them as very common and some sites do not.) Then sit back and relax while your cam performer takes you through the stages one request at a time. It’s like a guided tour through sex with your favorite tour guide.
Get Him to Talk You Through It
If you’re looking for a faster and cheaper way to enjoy your private cam session, just have him talk you through a masturbation session. Touching yourself the way someone else tells you, is a unique experience that blurs the lines between sex and masturbation. You can make it mutual or not, depending on what you like. These guys know what they’re talking about. He can find just the right thing to say to get you going all the way to the end, and he can think of few inventive ways to get you to finish yourself off.
You don’t have to be a Dom to love cam sites. If you’re more laid back in the bedroom you can still enjoy everything a site has to offer with these tips.