“Get a good show from professional”
Cam sites are the main source for a personalized porn option. But they’re also a huge source of money for the models. That means that there are going to be a ridiculous amount of people who jump on the train just for a ride. So you’re going to have to dig through them to find a man who’s going to give you a good show. But that can be a pain in the ass, so you might have to get the new guy to give you a good show whether he knows how to or not.
Avoid Private Chat
It might be tempting to get into a private chat with the hot new guy, but those can cost you some serious money. A new guy isn’t really versed in the ways of a pro yet, so spending time trying to get him to do what you want can end up costing you a pretty penny in the process. There will still be a ton of guys in free chat just because that’s how it works, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t put in requests. Telling him what to do will give him some direction when he doesn’t know how to act.
Boss Them Around
In the same vein of telling them what to do, it’s best to be bossy with it. These guys are young in the world of cam, they need a strong guy like you to boss them around. If you can, pay them in a private session. You’ll really get the most for your show this way. Set up your fantasy beforehand so that you really know what to say. The only way you can make this awkward is by not being prepared. Two silences make for a weird night.
Give Them an Outline
“Let them get out of the vanilla shell”
Not all guys are down with bossing someone around in the cyber bedroom and that’s totally cool. If you’re more into vanilla sex or having him tell you what’s up then you can always provide him with some instructions. Send him some form of script that the two of you will follow. At first it might seem stiff but you’ll both get into it. Sometimes all the guy needs is a push into the right direction to get comfortable with what’s going on.
We all know that people don’t feel awesome about themselves if they don’t feel comfortable. That’s the same for the cam models that you’ll run into.