“Go for what you really desire”
Maybe you’re a pretty straightforward guy when it comes to sex. You don’t need a lot of frills or gimmicks to get the job done and there’s nothing wrong with that. But maybe you’ve also been wondering about some pretty kinky stuff and you’re not sure if you’d like it. You don’t want to spring it on your partner, because what if he thinks you’re weird or freaky? You don’t have to keep wondering on the sly. There’s an easy way to find out if a certain fetish or kink will get you off. All you need to do is try out a cam site.
Explore Your Options
“Browse and look for choices”
There are so many cam sites out there that it’s literally impossible to list them all. There are cam sites that focus on young, hot cam guys. There are cam sites for bisexuals. There are interracial cam sites. There are cam sites for couples. There are also cam sites out there that focus purely on fetish and kink. In fact, you’ll be able to find a fetish category on most cam sites, but the site itself won’t necessarily allow some of the more extreme kinks out there (scat, urination, crush). If that’s what you’re looking for, you’d be better off to find a site that’s all about fetish.
Explore the Performer Line Up
No two cam guys are exactly the same. This means there’s going to be differences in what they’re willing to do. If you’re looking for some mild fetish action (like leather, latex, or rubber mask), chances are that most cam guys you look at are going to be okay with it. If what you want is a little more out there in terms of kink, it might be tough to find a performer that’s okay with it. Start your search by checking out the profiles of all the cam guys on a specific site. It’ll list things like their names and their age but it will also list what kind of acts they’re willing to perform. If you’re on a fairly vanilla cam site, you’re not going to find a model that’s willing to do every kind of sexual act imaginable. For that, your best bet is to try looking around an actual fetish cam site.
Fly Your Freak Flag
Another way to find a performer willing to get his freak on with you is to put what you want out there. If you’re hanging in public chat with a cam guy you’ve got your eye on, throw your fetish ideas out there and see how he reacts. You need to keep in mind that not every site will allow every kind of kink, but you can do this on a site that does. You can also send the cam guy you’ve been eyeing up a private message asking him if he does the kind of thing that you’re interested in. Worst case scenario? He says no and you’re free to go on looking for a performer that will. Don’t feel embarrassed or ashamed by what you want-every cam guy has heard crazier requests, guaranteed. It’s a part of the business, so there’s nothing to feel bad about.