Being on a cam site doesn’t mean that you automatically get to say what you want. In fact, the men who pop into a free chat session and start throwing around the names and insults are pretty much universally hated. You’re rude and the other clients are going to dislike you, and more importantly so are the cam men. You want the performers to like you, but you also want to be able to dirty talk like a champion. There are ways to get the best of both worlds, and here’s how.
Don’t Just Jump In
You always want to run something by the cam performer before you try it. Whether you’re in free chat, group chat, or private sessions this rule still applies. It’s a matter of being considerate to the performer and to the other members in a chat. Some men have a rough time with some slurs, for example. If you just throw that out there with no warning you can seriously destroy the good vibes in a chat. On the other hand, if you let everyone know that you like to get down and dirty with language everyone’s going to understand that you don’t really mean it when the curses and slurs start flying.
Make It Part of the Role Play
You have a better chance at getting a cam performer to go along with your request if you make it part of the scene that you’re playing out. He might get uncomfortable with a string of profanity, but if you set the scene where you’re the tough biker and he’s your property than it’s in character for you to get a little nasty. It also lets him deal with the fact that it’s just a game and there’s nothing really going on. If he seems reluctant to allow the dirty talk you can back off of that and just use it for flavor. Just like people who swear every other word aren’t as impressed by swearing, if every sentence you say contains a slur your games are going to get old and bad pretty quickly.
Don’t Back down for Anyone but the Performer
It’s one thing to want everyone to have a good time and it’s another to be a pushover. If you’re in a group chat or free show and the performer is all right with slurs and one of the other guests isn’t then you should feel free to stand your ground. The cam man runs this chat, and if he’s fine with it that’s all the permission you need. Some men like to micro-manage their group experience, but if they really wanted to get away from your language and the demands of other men then they would take the cam model private. If you’ve got the all clear from the performer then just ignore anyone who tries to stop you.
Dirty talk is one of the most rewarding cam activities. It’s one of the few cam activities that do not need an element of the imagination. You can really say what you like and you can really see the reaction, so don’t be turned off from trying just because you have to clear it with the performer first.