It’s not always easy to take the cam man of your choice private. If you haven’t done this sort of thing before then your first time will be as awkward and exciting as your first time offline. If you want to have a private show with a cam man and you’re too nervous, just focus on the facts. These will help calm you down and give you the confidence you need to take any cam model private, anytime.
You’re Not the First Guy He’s Dealt With
Before you think it’s a shame that you’re not his first think about it logically. Would you rather be with a man who knows what he’s doing or a man who’s never heard of the position you want to see him in? Not being the first guy he’s dealt with also means that you can calm down about being “too weird.” Even if you’re on a kink site or asking something quite a bit less vanilla than the average man you know that either A) he’s heard it before or B) he’s heard something just as kinky before and knows how to handle something that he wasn’t expecting. You’re not going to throw him off or disgust him, and he’s going to make sure that you have a great time even if he can’t do the specific thing you requested. It’s a good thing to know that you’re in the hands of a professional.
It’s Normal to Be Anxious Your First Time
Now that you know that you won’t freak him out, you have to know that you’re not going to freak yourself out. Hearing yourself telling a cam performer what to do for the first time can be a bit overwhelming. Most men love the power, but it is heady at first. If you’re anxious about what you’re going to say to him just make a list of things you like before you go on. You might think that you’ll be able to remember your favorite sexual positions even under torture, but you can save yourself some embarrassment by preparing just in case. It’s not uncommon to get a little tongue tied in front of your first cam man.
For Once It Really Is All about You
Having a private session with a cam model might just be the one time in your sexual life that it is all about you. You don’t have to worry if he likes it or not. It’s hotter if he does, of course, but if he’s willing to do it is the real question. You don’t have to hold back about getting what you want out of the session. You don’t have to make sure he finishes first or look after anyone’s pleasure but yours. This is the beauty of the cam experience and this is what you should focus on when nerves rear their ugly head. You’re doing something for you, and you deserve it.
Keep these in mind the next time you log into a cam site. Focus on these enough and you’ll have the confidence you need to ask that hot cam guy you’ve been fantasizing about to go private with you.